Don't judge

There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.

🌴The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall.

🌴When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.

🌴The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted.

🌴The second son said,  "no it was covered with green buds and full of promise".

🌴The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.

🌴The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.

🌴The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.

🌴He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.

🌴If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, the fulfillment of your fall.

🌴MORAL:🌴
🌴Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest.
🌴Don't judge life by one difficult season.
🌴Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to come sometime or later.

7 Principles of an eagle to live by

Eagles. For centuries, these seemingly larger-than-life birds have fascinated and inspired us with brilliant leadership characteristics. When eagles come to mind, people commonly imagine some enormous hunter soaring above wide-open spaces on outsized wings. Indeed, eagles are among the world’s largest birds of prey. We venerate them as living symbols of power, freedom, and transcendence. Man for many years have taken Eagles as a symbol of beauty, bravery, courage, honour, pride, determination and grace. What makes this bird so important and symbolic to humanity is its characteristics. Seven important characteristics of eagle has been closely associated to leadership and is widely researched and the facts accepted globally.

My quotes in pictures

Hello everyone ,

   I compiled some quotes in pictures that really motivated me this past  week. I want to share it with you all ...enjoy reading.

May we all be like the COFFEE

A young woman went to her grandmother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her – her husband had cheated on her and she was devastated. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as soon as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her grandmother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil; without saying a word.

What is your definition of happiness?

There was a boy, whose family was very wealthy. One day his father took him on a trip to the country, where he aimed to show his son, how poor people live. So they arrived to a farm of a very poor family, as he considered. They spent there several days. On their return, the father asked his son, did he like the trip.

„Oh, it was great, dad” – the boy replied. „Did you notice how poor people live?” „Yeah, I did“- said the boy. The father asked his son to tell in more details about his impressions from their trip“.

Rule your world

Successful people have two things on their lips, "smile and silence". Smile can solve problem while Silence can avoid problems.

Sugar and salt may be mixed together but ants reject the salt and carry away only the sugar. Select the right people in life and make your life better and sweeter. If you fail to achieve your dreams, change your ways not your God.

Back an better

Hellooo friends;

First of all am sorry for not posting for so long, it wasn't on purpose. I miss you all.
Happy Christmass an New year in arrears, and happy val in advance.

 I got all the lovely messages an the hangout invitations , am sorry if I have not responded to your hangout request  still trying to find my way around it .

I have a lot to share with you all.




Thank you .

Quote for the Day

Quote for the day;
The ability to speak several Languages is an asset. But the ability to keep your mouth shut in any language is priceless.

Quote for the Day..

Learn to be alone and to like it. There is nothing more freeing & empowering than learning to like your own company ..

Mandy Hale

Quote for the Day ..

The first step to being great is being Grateful.

Steve Jobs’ Last Words -

I came across this mind blowing article thought it wise to share with you all.

I reached the pinnacle of success in the business world.
In others’ eyes, my life is an epitome of success.

However, aside from work, I have little joy. In the end, wealth is only a fact of life that I am accustomed to.

What Defines you

I do not define myself by how many

roadblocks have appeared on my path.

I define myself by the courage I’ve found to

forge new roads.

I do not define myself by how many disappointments I’ve faced.

I define myself by the forgiveness and faith

I’ve found to start again.

I do not define myself by how long a

relationship lasted.

I define myself by how much I have loved,

and am willing to love again.

I do not define myself by how many times

I’ve been knocked down.

I define myself by how many times I’ve

struggled to my feet.

I am not my pain.

I am not my past.

I am that which has emerged from the fire.












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My Favourite quotes

 Always have a mind that is open to everything and attached to nothing .

If people can say " LOL " Without even laughing surely they can use " I love you " without even Loving, so Don't be fooled.

Enjoy your life at every moment of every day

Once a fisherman was sitting near seashore, under the shadow of a tree smoking his beedi. Suddenly a rich businessman passing by approached him and inquired as to why he was sitting under a tree smoking and not working. To this the poor fisherman replied that he had caught enough fishes for the day.

The Power in Giving

When you are generous; when you are kind, you’re always making a difference whether you know it or not.” 

There is an energy that flows from giving wholeheartedly. The giver is always rewarded by the mere fact of doing so. You may never know how many people you helped or touched by one simple act of benevolence.

A Letter to Myself

Dear Self,

Don't be afraid to allow yourself to be ambitious.They will note your failures, belittle your  accomplishments, and misunderstand your truth. They are flawed. Remember that you are also flawed. They are lost in a mundane routine, while you are riding the highs and lows of a dreamer. You will find a social resiliency that allows you to connect without being harmed.

Focus. Push through the haze, and find your thesis. A story without focus is a plot. You do not live for semantics; do not expect your reader to be interested in them. You live for art, for a clearer understanding of the human condition, and to pull yourself out of a never ending existential crisis. Establish these truths in your writing. Let them know that you are lost. Tell them that you are fighting for inner peace. Tell them that you are angry at your faithless heart.

Then you still have hope

If you can look at the sunset and smile, and find beauty in the colours of a small flower, then you still have hope.

If you can find pleasure in the movement of a butterfly, and if the
smile of a child can still warm your heart, then you still have hope.

If you can see the good in other people, and if the rain breaking on a
roof top can still lull you to sleep, then you still have hope.

If the sight of a rainbow still makes you stop and stare in wonder,
and if the soft fur of a favoured pet still feels pleasant under your
fingertips, then you still have hope.

20 Genius things you can do with that used tea bag

I have personally tried some of this tricks, and it worked for me, it's just simply amazing, 

The next time you drink a cup of tea, don’t throw away the tea bags, try some of this useful tricks.   

You can use them for different purposes.

1. Skin Irritation, Burns, Bruising, Mosquito Bites.

Pour the dry tea bag with water and put it on the spot that needs treatment of inflammation. You can use this trick for dark eye circles, to lower the swelling around the eyes and refresh this area.

What goes around

One day a man saw an old lady, stranded on the side of the road, but even in the dim light of day, he could see she needed help. So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and got out. His Pontiac was still sputtering when he approached her.
Even with the smile on his face, she was worried. No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so. Was he going to hurt her? He didn’t look safe; he looked poor and hungry. He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. It was those
chills which only fear can put in you. He said, “I’m here to help you, ma’am. Why don’t you wait in the car where it’s warm? By the way, my name is Bryan Anderson.”
Well, all she had was a flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough. Bryan crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two.
Soon he was able to change the tire. But he had to get dirty and his hands hurt.

Chimamanda 's Mind blowing speech

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie's Speech On 'Being Liked' Might Change Your Whole Life

Every so often, somebody comes along and says something so honest, so inspiring, so mind-explodingly wise, that there's nothing left to do except stare at them unblinkingly, while letting the bottom halves of our mouths fall to the floor.

Chimananda Ngozi Adichie is totally that person.